All 148 kink questions for couples
The full bank of 148 questions across 9 categories — from everyday affection to the spicier stuff. Your partner only sees the ones you both said yes to.
😘 Basics (22)
Let's warm things up
Everyday desires — the things most couples already do, or might want to try.
- Give a sensual massage to your partner?
- Get a sensual massage from your partner?
- Listen to music while having sex?
- Talk dirty to your partner during sex?
- Have your partner talk dirty to you during sex?
- Be louder and more vocal during sex?
- Have your partner be louder during sex?
- Have sex without using protection?
- Pull out? By 🍆 Only
- Have your partner pull out? To 🍆 Only
- Cum inside your partner? By 🍆 Only
- Have your partner cum inside you? To 🍆 Only
- Cum on your partner's face? By 🍆 Only
- Have your partner cum on your face? To 🍆 Only
- Cum on your partner's chest and stomach? By 🍆 Only
- Have your partner cum on your chest and stomach? To 🍆 Only
- Titty fuck your partner? By 🍆 Only
- Have your partner titty fuck you? To 🍆 Only
- Give your partner oral sex?
- Receive oral sex from your partner?
- Have your partner swallow your cum? By 🍆 Only
- Swallow your partner's cum? To 🍆 Only
🧙 Role Play (18)
Adult pretend playtime
Costumes, characters, and playing pretend.
- Role-play or wear costumes during sex?
- Engage in Consensual Non-Consent?
- Pretend you or your partner are much older?
- Pretend you or your partner are much younger?
- Cross dress?
- Have your partner cross dress?
- Teacher role-play?
- Nurse role-play?
- Boss role-play?
- Repairman role-play?
- Maid role-play?
- Pretend your partner is a complete stranger?
- Fantasy RPG role-play?
- Sci-fi or Space Alien role-play?
- Harry Potter role-play?
- Star Wars role-play?
- Lord of the Rings role-play?
- Game of Thrones role-play?
🍩 Butt Stuff (9)
Anal play
Questions about butt stuff.
- Have anal sex?
- Finger your partner anally?
- Be anally fingered by your partner?
- Give your partner analingus?
- Have your partner give you analingus?
- Peg your partner? By 🍑 Only
- Have your partner peg you? To 🍑 Only
- Explore anally stimulating your partner?
- Explore having your partner anally stimulate you?
🧘 Positions (13)
Kama Sutra anyone?
Positions and configurations worth exploring.
- 69?
- Try different sexual positions?
- Do it doggy-style?
- Do cowgirl?
- Do reverse-cowgirl?
- Do it with your partner's legs on your shoulders? By 🍆 Only
- Do it with your legs on your partner's shoulders? To 🍆 Only
- Be on top more?
- Have your partner on top more?
- Have sex standing up?
- Install a "sex position of the day" app?
- Get a copy of the Kama Sutra?
- Make a sexual to-do list?
🤐 BDSM (32)
Bondage, discipline, submission and masochism
Power play, restraint, and intensity.
- Be rougher towards your partner in the bedroom?
- Have your partner be rougher towards you in the bedroom?
- Pull your partner's hair during sex?
- Have your hair pulled during sex?
- Bite your partner during sex?
- Be bitten during sex?
- Choke your partner during sex?
- Be choked during sex?
- Scratch your partner during sex?
- Be scratched during sex?
- Tie-up or handcuff your partner during sex?
- Be tied-up or handcuffed during sex?
- Explore your submissive side with your partner?
- Have your partner explore their submissive side with you?
- Have your partner's mouth covered or gagged during sex?
- Have your mouth covered or gagged during sex?
- Force your partner to orgasm?
- Be forced to orgasm by your partner?
- Edge your partner?
- Have your partner edge you?
- Blind fold your partner during sex?
- Be blind folded during sex?
- Use handcuffs during sex?
- Participate in impact play during sex? (whip, paddle, ...)
- Spank or slap your partner during sex?
- Have your partner spank or slap you during sex?
- Have your partner wear leather or latex?
- Wear leather or latex during sex?
- Pee on your partner?
- Be peed on by your partner?
- Explore your dominant side with your partner?
- Have your partner explore their dominant side with you?
✈️ Frequency & Location (25)
When, where, and how often
Time, place, and cadence of intimacy.
- Take nude or semi-nude pics of your partner?
- Have your partner take nude or semi-nude pics of you?
- Make a private sex tape together?
- Watch porn together?
- Use porn to show each other things you like?
- Have shower sex?
- Have sex while you are menstruating? By 🍑 Only
- Have sex when your partner is menstruating? To 🍑 Only
- Have sex more often?
- Schedule sex?
- Have sex multiple times in a row?
- Have morning sex?
- Have sex outside?
- Have sex in a public place?
- Have sex in a car?
- Give road head? By 🍑 Only
- Receive road head? To 🍑 Only
- Do sexual stuff while driving?
- Have sex in a library?
- Post your private photos or videos online?
- Go to a strip club together?
- Have sex around the house?
- Have phone sex?
- Send your partner nude photos?
- Have your partner send you nude photos?
🧸 Toys & Devices (10)
Toys for playtime
Toys, devices, and accessories.
- Use a butt plug during sex?
- Have your partner use a butt plug during sex?
- Use long distance sex toys?
- Shop at a sex store or webstore together?
- Use toys during sex?
- Use a cock ring during sex?
- Use a strap-on during sex?
- Use a dildo during sex?
- Use nipple clamps?
- Use a vibrator during sex?
🌳 Body Preferences (9)
All the finest details
Body hair, piercings, tattoos, and more.
- Body hair
- Hairy armpits
- Shaved
- Nipple piercings
- Body piercings
- Face piercings
- Face tattoos
- Body tattoos
- Feet
🍍 Swingers (10)
Group stuff
Swinging, threesomes, and group scenarios.
- Watch your partner be penetrated by another?
- Be penetrated by another while your partner watches?
- Penetrate another while your partner watches?
- Watch your partner penetrate another?
- Have a three-some?
- Have group sex with more than three people?
- Have a sexual "Hall Pass" sometimes?
- Go to a nudist resort together?
- Watch your partner receive oral sex from another?
- Receive oral sex while your partner watches?