All 240 kink questions for couples

Let's warm things up

Everyday desires — the things most couples already do, or might want to try.

• Give a sensual massage to your partner?
• Get a sensual massage from your partner?
• Have longer teasing and foreplay sessions together?
• Cover yourselves in body oil during sex?
• Listen to music while having sex?
• Listen to aggressive music (rap, rock, metal) during sex?
• Listen to romantic or slow music during sex?
• Watch each other masturbate?
• Watch porn together?
• Use porn to show each other things you like?
• Talk dirty to your partner during sex?
• Have your partner talk dirty to you during sex?
• Be louder and more vocal during sex?
• Have your partner be louder during sex?
• Make eye contact during sex?
• Have sex without using protection?
• Pull out? By 🍆 Only
• Have your partner pull out? To 🍆 Only
• Cum inside your partner? By 🍆 Only
• Have your partner cum inside you? To 🍆 Only
• Cum on your partner's face? By 🍆 Only
• Have your partner cum on your face? To 🍆 Only
• Cum on your partner's chest and stomach? By 🍆 Only
• Have your partner cum on your chest and stomach? To 🍆 Only
• Cum on your partner's breasts or neck (pearl necklace)? By 🍆 Only
• Have your partner cum on your breasts or neck (pearl necklace)? To 🍆 Only
• Titty fuck your partner? By 🍆 Only
• Have your partner titty fuck you? To 🍆 Only
• Give your partner oral sex?
• Receive oral sex from your partner?
• Give your partner a hand-job?
• Receive a hand-job from your partner? To 🍑 Only
• Give your partner a foot-job?
• Receive a foot-job from your partner? To 🍑 Only
• Have your partner swallow your cum? By 🍆 Only
• Swallow your partner's cum? To 🍆 Only
• Cuddle and pillow talk after sex?

Adult pretend playtime

Costumes, characters, and playing pretend.

• Role-play or wear costumes during sex?
• Engage in Consensual Non-Consent?
• Pretend you or your partner are much older?
• Pretend you or your partner are much younger?
• Cross dress?
• Have your partner cross dress?
• Teacher role-play?
• Nurse role-play?
• Doctor and patient role-play?
• Boss role-play?
• Secretary role-play?
• Repairman role-play?
• Maid role-play?
• Do a striptease for your partner?
• Have your partner do a striptease for you?
• Pretend your partner is a complete stranger?
• Bar pickup or one-night-stand role-play?
• Fantasy RPG role-play?
• Sci-fi or Space Alien role-play?
• Harry Potter role-play?
• Star Wars role-play?
• Lord of the Rings role-play?
• Game of Thrones role-play?
• Breeding or insemination role-play?
• Cheating role-play (talk about having sex with someone else)?

Anal play

Questions about butt stuff.

• Have anal sex?
• Finger your partner anally?
• Be anally fingered by your partner?
• Give your partner analingus?
• Have your partner give you analingus?
• Peg your partner? By 🍑 Only
• Have your partner peg you? To 🍑 Only
• Explore anally stimulating your partner?
• Explore having your partner anally stimulate you?
• Try double penetration (both holes filled at once, e.g., your partner plus a toy)?
• Cum in your partner's ass? By 🍆 Only
• Have your partner cum in your ass?
• Use a butt plug during sex?
• Have your partner use a butt plug during sex?
• Use anal beads?
• Use a prostate massager on your partner?
• Have your partner use a prostate massager on you? To 🍑 Only

Kama Sutra anyone?

Positions and configurations worth exploring.

• 69?
• Try different sexual positions?
• Do it missionary?
• Do it doggy-style?
• Do cowgirl?
• Do reverse-cowgirl?
• Do it with your partner's legs on your shoulders? By 🍆 Only
• Do it with your legs on your partner's shoulders? To 🍆 Only
• Be on top more?
• Have your partner on top more?
• Have sex in front of a mirror?
• Have sex standing up?
• Have sex against a wall?
• Install a "sex position of the day" app?
• Get a copy of the Kama Sutra?
• Make a sexual to-do list?

Bondage, discipline, submission and masochism

Power play, restraint, and intensity.

• Be rougher towards your partner in the bedroom?
• Have your partner be rougher towards you in the bedroom?
• Pull your partner's hair during sex?
• Have your hair pulled during sex?
• Bite your partner during sex?
• Be bitten during sex?
• Choke your partner during sex?
• Be choked during sex?
• Scratch your partner during sex?
• Be scratched during sex?
• Tickle your partner until they can't take it?
• Be tickled until you can't take it?
• Tie-up or handcuff your partner during sex?
• Be tied-up or handcuffed during sex?
• Tie your partner up in decorative rope (shibari / Japanese rope bondage)?
• Be tied up in decorative rope (shibari / Japanese rope bondage) by your partner?
• Explore your submissive side with your partner?
• Have your partner explore their submissive side with you?
• Praise your partner during sex (good girl/boy, tell them how amazing they are)?
• Be praised during sex (told you're a good girl/boy, how amazing you are)?
• Degrade your partner during sex (verbally, name-calling, dirty insults)?
• Be degraded during sex (verbally, name-calling, dirty insults)?
• Have your partner's mouth covered or gagged during sex?
• Have your mouth covered or gagged during sex?
• Have your partner wear a penis-shaped gag during sex?
• Wear a penis-shaped gag during sex?
• Force your partner to orgasm?
• Be forced to orgasm by your partner?
• Edge your partner?
• Have your partner edge you?
• Control when your partner masturbates (red light, green light style)?
• Have your partner control when you masturbate (red light, green light style)?
• Tease your partner and deny them orgasm over an extended session?
• Be teased by your partner and denied orgasm over an extended session?
• Ruin your partner's orgasm?
• Have your partner ruin your orgasm?
• Blind fold your partner during sex?
• Be blind folded during sex?
• Use handcuffs during sex?
• Participate in impact play during sex? (whip, paddle, ...)
• Drip hot candle wax on your partner's body?
• Have your partner drip hot candle wax on your body?
• Spank or slap your partner during sex?
• Have your partner spank or slap you during sex?
• Use a flogger on your partner?
• Be flogged by your partner?
• Have your partner wear leather?
• Wear leather during sex?
• Have your partner wear latex?
• Wear latex during sex?
• Have your partner wear stockings and high heels during sex?
• Wear stockings and high heels for your partner during sex?
• Pee on your partner?
• Be peed on by your partner?
• Explore your dominant side with your partner?
• Have your partner explore their dominant side with you?
• Be a pet for your partner (puppy, kitten, etc.)?
• Have your partner be your pet (puppy, kitten, etc.)?
• Have your partner wear a collar and leash?
• Wear a collar and leash for your partner?
• Call your partner by a title during sex (Sir, Master, Goddess, Mistress, etc.)?
• Have your partner call you by a title during sex (Sir, Master, Goddess, Mistress, etc.)?
• Keep your partner in chastity (orgasm denial over days, weeks, or longer)?
• Be kept in chastity by your partner (orgasm denial over days, weeks, or longer)?

When, where, and how often

Time, place, and cadence of intimacy.

• Take nude or semi-nude pics of your partner?
• Have your partner take nude or semi-nude pics of you?
• Make a private sex tape together?
• Take photos of yourselves during sex?
• Have shower sex?
• Have sex in a hot tub or pool?
• Have sex while you are menstruating? By 🍑 Only
• Have sex when your partner is menstruating? To 🍑 Only
• Have sex more often?
• Schedule sex?
• Have sex multiple times in a row?
• Have morning sex?
• Have sex outside?
• Have sex in the woods or in a park?
• Have sex on a beach?
• Have sex in a public place?
• Have sex somewhere you might get caught?
• Have sex in front of an outward-facing window?
• Have sex in a car?
• Give your partner oral sex in a parked car?
• Receive oral sex from your partner in a parked car?
• Do sexual stuff while driving?
• Have sex in a library?
• Post your private photos or videos online?
• Go to a strip club together?
• Have sex around the house?
• Have sex at your workplace (office, after-hours, etc.)?
• Have sex on a table, counter, or desk?
• Have phone sex?
• Sext each other (dirty texts, photos, or short videos)?
• Send your partner nude photos?
• Have your partner send you nude photos?

Toys for playtime

Toys, devices, and accessories.

• Use toys during sex?
• Use long distance sex toys?
• Shop at a sex store or webstore together?
• Use a cock ring during sex?
• Use a fleshlight or stroker on your partner?
• Have your partner use a fleshlight or stroker on you? To 🍑 Only
• Use a strap-on during sex?
• Use a dildo during sex?
• Use nipple clamps?
• Use a vibrator during sex?
• Use a wand massager (e.g. Magic Wand)?
• Control a remote-controlled vibrator while your partner is wearing it?
• Wear a remote-controlled vibrator that your partner controls?
• Use a remote-controlled vibrator in public (worn under clothes)?
• Have your partner wear a chastity device (cage)?
• Wear a chastity device (cage) for your partner?

All the finest details

Body hair, piercings, tattoos, and more.

• Body hair
• Hairy armpits
• Shaved
• Nipple piercings
• Body piercings
• Face piercings
• Face tattoos
• Body tattoos
• Feet
• Lingerie
• Stockings or fishnets
• High heels
• Beards / facial hair
• Glasses
• Scent, cologne, or perfume

Group stuff

Swinging, threesomes, and group scenarios.

• Watch your partner be penetrated by another?
• Be penetrated by another while your partner watches?
• Penetrate another while your partner watches?
• Watch your partner penetrate another?
• Watch your partner with someone else and feel turned on by the humiliation (cuckolding)?
• Be with someone else while your partner watches and feels turned on by the humiliation?
• Watch your partner with someone else and feel proud / turned on (stag / hotwife dynamic)?
• Be with someone else while your partner watches with pride (stag / hotwife dynamic)?
• Have a three-some?
• Have a threesome with another person who has a penis?
• Have a threesome with another person who has a vagina?
• Have group sex with more than three people?
• Have a sexual "Hall Pass" sometimes?
• Open up the relationship to ongoing outside partners (open or polyamorous)?
• Go to a nudist resort together?
• Go to a sex party or lifestyle club together?
• Watch your partner receive oral sex from another?
• Receive oral sex while your partner watches?